Hi! This Aloola!
I’ve just become aware of a huge lack of communication from our side. On behalf of my better half I apologise for leaving you all in the dark about our journey in the past months.
What have we been up to?
What comes to mind first is that, after we had attended Quirkshop “Just Desserts”, we became part of the so called “Quircle”, which stands for quirky circle. We meet in a private space about once a month and play consciously kinky games. It’s a space for sharing, reflecting, connecting and exploring conscious kink. What is that? It’s dom-sub play in a tantric way, using all sorts of toys, like whips, floggers, slappers, stingy wheels, feathers, ropes, fire gear and whatever we feel like trying out. We also give and receive massages, cuddles, hugs or just talking space. This has been a blessing in both our lives, and we have bonded lots as a group and look forward to every meeting. We have not missed one and won’t, if at all possible. I personally like bondage a lot. I love feeling tied up and blindfolded, not knowing what comes next. Ramon is great at building me up to a state of high alertness and excitement. My breasts become highly sensitive when I feel the ropes squeezing them from above and below (just thinking of it makes me feel juicy), and I’ve been told it looks hot. I’m not always up for it though. Sometimes I get a flogging on my back with our beautiful leather flogger with a wooden handle. It smells amazing and it feels great when it comes down on my skin, sometimes just stroking me, sometimes coming down on me like a hale storm. I’m amazed as to how much I can actually take. The strokes can be loud and look violent to others, but when it’s done the right way, I don’t feel pain. I feel the impact on my skin, and it wakes me up, as well as loosens my muscles. We play in twos or more, and the energy always builds up to a highly vibrational energy, which later settles down to a sweet cosiness. You should try out your own Quircle, honestly!
We have also met up with a befriended couple and done some Tantra together. The meeting started with chats and catch up, moved on to cooking and eating together, went into dancing, sensual touch, blind folded conscious kink and ended in juicy cuddles late at night. No – we did not have group sex. But we did touch each other in highly sensual places and hugged as a foursome (imagine 4 people spooning and having their hands all over the place). Wow – that was beautiful. We felt very close and comfortable, and our friendship has deepened once more. My heart is now pounding a bit faster, as I think back to this fantastic weekend.
Last but not least, Ramon and I are meeting at the Heart Support Circle, facilitated by the lovely Tantra Teacher Rowan, and we, have private hot tub sessions in the forest at night, now and then, when we feel like needing togetherness and catching up with each other’s hearts.
Life catches up with us all the time. We both have hobbies or side business that takes up a lot of our time, individually. Every now and then we feel very distant from each other, not knowing where the other one is at. By going to the Heart Support Circle, the Quircle and by having the odd hot tub session we make sure that we do something together that reminds us how much we love each other and how important it is to meet on a heart level and connect.
As for the Tantric Disco, we kind of had given up on the event as it was. But something is cooking, and we might come up with a different set up and different location (London, maybe?). The Disco is not dead. Just a sleeping Beauty at the moment. Kisses welcome😉
Namaste, Dear Reader!
Have a beautiful Festive Time and hopefully enjoy the simple pleasures.